Question about child abuse.?

QUESTION:

okay, so they mad us watch a video and school. it was a music video.
"alyssa lies" & im only 13 so i dont know much. but i probably no your answer. but, why do people have kids, just to hurt them? its reall upsetting. i love my parents, but i just dont understand my anyone would ever wanna hurt a child. especially their own . i mean really.

here;s a video of alyssa lies.
this is not my classroom
or the video i saw . i just
saw the regular music video
but whatever. ;

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpE73PvU9…

JOHNNYDOLLAR ANSWERS:

I know it is hard to understand. You are so young and the world is so complicated. First of all, sometimes parents have a hard day at work and they bring that frustration home. They can't keep it all bottled up. That's bad for you, so they have kids. Sometimes parents drink too much and people insult them so to boost their confidence they beat their kids. It helps them feel better about themselves. Sometimes kids just don't listen and what else can you do? Ya know? Sometimes they are just wimps and can't take a punch.
Source(s):
I am a High School Guidance Counselor

How do I tell a 8 year old he smells?

QUESTION:

My brother's friend doesn't shower everyday and he smells up my whole house! How do I tell him to shower up without being mean?

JOHNNYDOLLAR ANSWERS:

Kids have a fragile ego, so it's best to make a game out of it. Tell him Santa Claus is outside, and when he runs outside, blast him with a fire hose. Play tag with him and when he comes around the corner, get him in the face with a box of Arm and Hammer Baking Soda. You can try daring him to snort Lysol or to eat potpourri.

Source(s):
I Am a Child Groomer

WHAT'S THE WORST THING A LITTLE KID SAID TO YOU?

QUESTION:

I just started a job at a daycare center. and i had tons of little kids crawling all over me wanting to hold my hand and play and read books. lol but this one kid. omg he was sooo dam rude. he said a lot to me but one of things that didnt really hurt my feelings was "can you like hear me cause you keep saying huh" yes i know its just a little kid they dont mean it. i was jw what was the worst you got from a kid. (and i couldnt hear cause there was 20 kids screaming and playing with toys lol)

JOHNNYDOLLAR ANSWERS:

I was babysitting a child once and I couldn't get the little boy to use the bathroom. He was running around all crazy. So, I held the door shut and told him I wasn't going to let him out until he used the bathroom. He started banging on the door, playing, but then he started crying, but he was leaning on the door now so I couldn't get in. Then he balled, "Why'd you leave daddy? Why?!! Come baaaaaack" I finally pushed the door open and knelt down beside him and asked him if he missed his dad. He said, "He touched me."

I'm sorry, this is too much. I have to go.

Source(s):
I love babysitting!